My main goal throughout this pregnancy (other than staying healthy for baby boy) was to stay pregnant as long as I could since I HAD to finish student teaching. A lot of people didn't think I would make it, but as the weeks went by I knew I would make it all the way. I finished student teaching with just one week left of pregnancy and feeling as ready as ever. Maybe it was wishful thinking to believe that the day I finished work would be the day I delivered. NOTHING HAPPENED. So my due date came and left just like that...
On June 24th, I woke up as Cori was getting ready for work and noticed that I was having gentle "cramps". I jokingly told him that "today might be the day" and that he should keep his phone on him at work incase I went into labor. I fell back asleep. Because I was past my due date, I had to go to the hospital every two days to be monitored. I was due to get monitored that day so I left Cai with my mom and headed to the hospital alone. I did the 1/2 hr monitoring as usual and the nurse mentioned that I was having small contractions but they were sporadic and not strong. She checked me and said I was dilated 1cm and sent me on my way (expecting to see me again in two days for my next monitoring sesh). I arrived back home at around 1pm. My mom had just put Cai down for a nap and I sat down next to her while we watched Scandal together and she folded laundry..Isn't she so wonderful?! Almost immediately I started having stronger "cramps". They were hurting pretty bad and my mom excitedly got a piece of paper and started documenting them. They were so random!
Starting time: 1:34pm
16 minutes
11 minutes
7 minutes
14 minutes
6 minutes
10 minutes
8 minutes
8 minutes
12 minutes
7 minutes
7 minutes
Mind you, during this time I decided to pack my hospital bag and Cai's over night bag. Don't ask me why I waited so long...I wait till the last minute for EVERYTHING. Mid way through these contractions, I had called Cori to tell him that I was having contractions but not to worry as they were not consistent and not TOO bad. He nonchalantly came home an hour early and thank God he did, because by the time he came home I knew I needed to get to the hospital ASAP.
We packed up the car (everyone was taking their sweet time) and we headed to a friend's house to drop off Cai. It felt like the contractions were getting worse and worse by the second. By the time we got to the hospital 4:50pm it felt like I was in full blown labor. I had to stop twice between the parking lot and the entrance of the hospital to lean on Cori through them. I was checked upon arrival and I was a whooping 3 cm!! They asked if I wanted an epidural and the answer was YESSSSSSSS.
Cori and I had made a bet that I would/wouldn't get the epidural. I was wanting to attempt a water birth and was toying around with the idea of doing a natural birth. Cori was supportive yet pretty sure I wouldn't be able to so like anything we disagree on, we made a bet of $100. Thinking back, betting on money that is already yours is stupid. Next time I need to bet on something I'll actually win.
The nurse poked me 3 times trying to draw blood and finally called the doctor to do it, she got it on the first try. I was told the blood would go to the lab and they would know in 30 minutes whether I was able to get the epidural or not. I have no idea what they were testing but I was praying to God that those 30 minutes would go by quick. My contractions were literally happening every 20 seconds by this point. I would stand and lean on Cori during each of the contractions and he would count down the seconds for me. Like clockwork, they happened EVERY 20 seconds. I didn't have enough time to compose myself, to breathe, to think, to get over the pain, it was plain and simple the most horrible experience ever.
To make a long story short and to spare you from the drama (my mom and Cori can testify to how intense the next hour was)....I ended up having a precipitous labor. For those of you who don't know (I sure didn't), a precipitous labor is when a woman goes from full labor to birth in less than three hours. In my case, I showed up to the hospital at 4:50pm at 3cm dilated and gave birth 1 hour and 1/2 later. Needless to say despite my screams and constant pleading, there was no time for the epidural. There was no time for anything other than prepare ourselves to meet our little one sooner than we expected. I will say one thing about this birthing experience....I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I have never experienced something so incredibly painful and exhausting in my life. Cori and my mom kept telling me how proud they were of me, and to be honest I didn't feel proud, I felt defeated. It was a feeling I could never even begin to explain or describe. All I know is that I NEVER EVER want to experience a labor like that again. Apparently, the likelihood of it happening again is high so I need to tell my doctor about it for my next pregnancy so I don't give birth at home or in a car. All I know is the minute I have my first contraction next time I will be in the hospital demanding an epidural. Look at me talking about a "next time"already.....Ya, we will see about that ;)
Cori was my saving grace this labor. I honestly couldn't have made it through without him. Our experience was so different this time around (in comparison to Cai's birth). I really had to rely on him to keep me sane and focused enough to know that despite feeling like I was, I wasn't going to actually die (slightly, just slightly kidding).
Phenix Alexander weighed 8lbs 1oz and came out like a champ. It was love at first sight. Almost immediately my mom noticed he had dimples. I love love love dimples! Oh the little things that make me smile and forget the pain and suffering. His precious little face dents made it all worth it. We are officially a family of four now (five including Lincoln), and I couldn't be more proud and happy. Just when you think your heart couldn't possibly handle loving someone else as much as you love your husband and son, another little man makes his debut and your heart automatically doubles in size. Just. Like. That.
My mom stayed with us for a month, followed by two weeks with my mother in law. They were both so much help and made the transition between being a mom of one to two so much easier. The healing process for Phenix was a lot harder than it was for Cai but I am finally starting to feel like myself again ( a month later) and I totally think I got this :) Thank you to all of you that prayed for us and sent us well wishes and congratulations on the new addition to the Bemis family. We appreciate you all and hope to one day introduce you to our handsome little dimpled faced boy.
Fun fact...I was born August 24th, Cai was born March 24th, and Phenix was born June 24th. Neato huh?
Friday, July 25, 2014
Saturday, May 10, 2014
Update of all Updates
I am going to apologize in advance for the lengthy post you are about to read. It's been 9 months since I have sat down and written to update all of you on everything in the Bemis life. There is lots and lots to tell.
For starters, we have been living in Germany now for 8 months. It took some adjusting, but it is finally starting to feel like home. Okinawa however has never left my heart and I secretly plot to one day make it back there and live out a couple more years on the beautiful island. Three years in paradise was not enough. Germany is night/day compared to Okinawa. It is beautiful in every way that Okinawa is not. I can't help but feel so blessed to be able to experience all of these different countries as my home. I really think I was meant for it. We've made friends in Germany that I already know will be friends for a lifetime. I can't help but feel a sense of dread that one day I will lose them like I lost my Okinawa family. Oh the perks of living the military life.
We spent Thanksgiving at home with a bunch of friends. Our beautiful friend, Alexa, visited us from Italy and we spent the days after Thanksgiving in Belgium. Brussels is an amazing city and we could NOT stop eating waffles, oysters, french fries, chocolates, you name it. If only I could have had a taste of their beer, it would have made the trip complete (guess I'll have to go back). Which brings me to my next point....
For those of you who don't know already, we are expecting baby boy number #2!!!! Phenix is due to grace us with his presence on the 22nd of June. We couldn't be happier to give Cai a little brother to play with and a forever friend. Our family is quickly growing, and it's exhilarating and terrifying at the same time! Boys are quickly outnumbering me in this household. There is not a day that goes by that I don't look at my boys (Cori and Cai oh and Lincoln too) and feel a surge of happiness run through my veins. How can I possibly love more? Guess I'll just have to make room ;)
Christmas was spent at home (just the three of us) and New Years Eve was spent on a plane on our way to Chile. As most of you know, Cori's birthday is on new years eve. He celebrated his birthday on a plane, with an almost two year old son, a pregnant wife, going to a country I am sure he never thought he would visit. Life sure does surprise us. We spent two weeks in Chile enjoying our family, friends, and amazing Chilean food. It was such a great vacation. I can't explain how grateful I was to spend time with my grandparents and family that I haven't seen in years. I am so glad Cori and Cai had the opportunity to see where I grew up and catch a glimpse of the culture that has partially molded me into who I am today. I don't think we've eaten so much in a two period of time, ever!
After Chile, Cori flew back to Germany while Cai and I made our way to California for three weeks. We got to spend some quality time with my family and friends. I was also able to take care of some things that I HAD to be in CA to do. We flew to Baltimore to stay a night with my uncle and then took a hop back to Germany. Remember the story about Lincoln in my last flight from Baltimore to Germany? Well I will spare you the details on this particular flight, but I'll leave it at this.....I was covered in Cai's projectile vomit from head to toe. I swear I can't catch a break on these stupid flights.
So what are we up to now you ask? Cori had surgery in February on his shoulder. The surgery went well and he got to spend a month at home with us healing. He has started going to physical therapy to get the mobility back. He isn't anywhere near what was once "normal" but he has made A LOT of progress. It is just a matter of time. He is now back at work and trying to figure out what the next step will be in his military career. There are so many options of what can happen in the near future. We've just learned to take it day by day and keep a positive outlook on everything.
Cai turned the big ol' TWO in March! My goodness how time flies. He is the sweetest, most active, and happy boy I've ever met. He loves to give hugs and kisses, dance, eat (this boy can put down some serious food!), climb, jump, throw himself into the couch, run, play outside, poop, sleep, and everything else a typical two year old enjoys doing. He loves water and is a daredevil. He is starting to talk more and more now which is cute and amusing at the same time. He loves his baby brother. He asks me to kiss my belly daily, but when he is done he says "bye bye" and pulls down my shirt to "put him away". We'll see how well he reacts when he realizes he can't just make Phenix go bye bye whenever he wants once he is born. Cori and I both agree that he is going to be a jealous one, but we also feel he is going to be loving and helpful since that is his character anyways. Only time will tell.
Monday I start week 7 of 12 in my student teaching practicum. I am almost done!! This is the last step in completing my Masters program in Special Education. I can't believe that by this summer I will be officially done with this degree that I've simultaneously conquered while starting my own business and becoming a first time mommy. It's been a long roller coaster of a ride but I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. I want to make my family proud and I am hoping they know how much of this was done for them and our future. My experience so far has been nothing short of amazing. My teacher is such a joy to work with and I know I have a created a lifelong friend and mentor in her. There is an opening at our school next year for a part-time teaching position. I am working to complete all of my paperwork in time so I can be eligible to apply. It would be the perfect job as it would allow me to dive into the teaching world, while at the same time being able to spend a good amount of quality time with my boys at home. Crossing my fingers. Please pray that Phenix doesn't decide to make his debut early and that I am able to finish these last 5 weeks of school without any complications in my pregnancy. So far so good.
Well I pretty much think that sums it up for the past 9 months. I told you there was so much to share!! Last weekend I had a wonderful baby shower thrown by some great friends, and this weekend I get to celebrate Mother's day with my beautiful family. God continues to work in our lives daily and He has shown his grace and love to my family and I through good times and bad. I am so thankful for all of you! If we haven't crossed paths recently, I am sure we soon will. We love you and like always appreciate your friendship, love, and support.
For starters, we have been living in Germany now for 8 months. It took some adjusting, but it is finally starting to feel like home. Okinawa however has never left my heart and I secretly plot to one day make it back there and live out a couple more years on the beautiful island. Three years in paradise was not enough. Germany is night/day compared to Okinawa. It is beautiful in every way that Okinawa is not. I can't help but feel so blessed to be able to experience all of these different countries as my home. I really think I was meant for it. We've made friends in Germany that I already know will be friends for a lifetime. I can't help but feel a sense of dread that one day I will lose them like I lost my Okinawa family. Oh the perks of living the military life.
We spent Thanksgiving at home with a bunch of friends. Our beautiful friend, Alexa, visited us from Italy and we spent the days after Thanksgiving in Belgium. Brussels is an amazing city and we could NOT stop eating waffles, oysters, french fries, chocolates, you name it. If only I could have had a taste of their beer, it would have made the trip complete (guess I'll have to go back). Which brings me to my next point....
For those of you who don't know already, we are expecting baby boy number #2!!!! Phenix is due to grace us with his presence on the 22nd of June. We couldn't be happier to give Cai a little brother to play with and a forever friend. Our family is quickly growing, and it's exhilarating and terrifying at the same time! Boys are quickly outnumbering me in this household. There is not a day that goes by that I don't look at my boys (Cori and Cai oh and Lincoln too) and feel a surge of happiness run through my veins. How can I possibly love more? Guess I'll just have to make room ;)
Christmas was spent at home (just the three of us) and New Years Eve was spent on a plane on our way to Chile. As most of you know, Cori's birthday is on new years eve. He celebrated his birthday on a plane, with an almost two year old son, a pregnant wife, going to a country I am sure he never thought he would visit. Life sure does surprise us. We spent two weeks in Chile enjoying our family, friends, and amazing Chilean food. It was such a great vacation. I can't explain how grateful I was to spend time with my grandparents and family that I haven't seen in years. I am so glad Cori and Cai had the opportunity to see where I grew up and catch a glimpse of the culture that has partially molded me into who I am today. I don't think we've eaten so much in a two period of time, ever!
After Chile, Cori flew back to Germany while Cai and I made our way to California for three weeks. We got to spend some quality time with my family and friends. I was also able to take care of some things that I HAD to be in CA to do. We flew to Baltimore to stay a night with my uncle and then took a hop back to Germany. Remember the story about Lincoln in my last flight from Baltimore to Germany? Well I will spare you the details on this particular flight, but I'll leave it at this.....I was covered in Cai's projectile vomit from head to toe. I swear I can't catch a break on these stupid flights.
So what are we up to now you ask? Cori had surgery in February on his shoulder. The surgery went well and he got to spend a month at home with us healing. He has started going to physical therapy to get the mobility back. He isn't anywhere near what was once "normal" but he has made A LOT of progress. It is just a matter of time. He is now back at work and trying to figure out what the next step will be in his military career. There are so many options of what can happen in the near future. We've just learned to take it day by day and keep a positive outlook on everything.
Cai turned the big ol' TWO in March! My goodness how time flies. He is the sweetest, most active, and happy boy I've ever met. He loves to give hugs and kisses, dance, eat (this boy can put down some serious food!), climb, jump, throw himself into the couch, run, play outside, poop, sleep, and everything else a typical two year old enjoys doing. He loves water and is a daredevil. He is starting to talk more and more now which is cute and amusing at the same time. He loves his baby brother. He asks me to kiss my belly daily, but when he is done he says "bye bye" and pulls down my shirt to "put him away". We'll see how well he reacts when he realizes he can't just make Phenix go bye bye whenever he wants once he is born. Cori and I both agree that he is going to be a jealous one, but we also feel he is going to be loving and helpful since that is his character anyways. Only time will tell.
Monday I start week 7 of 12 in my student teaching practicum. I am almost done!! This is the last step in completing my Masters program in Special Education. I can't believe that by this summer I will be officially done with this degree that I've simultaneously conquered while starting my own business and becoming a first time mommy. It's been a long roller coaster of a ride but I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. I want to make my family proud and I am hoping they know how much of this was done for them and our future. My experience so far has been nothing short of amazing. My teacher is such a joy to work with and I know I have a created a lifelong friend and mentor in her. There is an opening at our school next year for a part-time teaching position. I am working to complete all of my paperwork in time so I can be eligible to apply. It would be the perfect job as it would allow me to dive into the teaching world, while at the same time being able to spend a good amount of quality time with my boys at home. Crossing my fingers. Please pray that Phenix doesn't decide to make his debut early and that I am able to finish these last 5 weeks of school without any complications in my pregnancy. So far so good.
Well I pretty much think that sums it up for the past 9 months. I told you there was so much to share!! Last weekend I had a wonderful baby shower thrown by some great friends, and this weekend I get to celebrate Mother's day with my beautiful family. God continues to work in our lives daily and He has shown his grace and love to my family and I through good times and bad. I am so thankful for all of you! If we haven't crossed paths recently, I am sure we soon will. We love you and like always appreciate your friendship, love, and support.
Friday, September 27, 2013
Goodbye Oki. HELLLOOO GERMANY.
We are quickly approaching the end of September and I have
so much to update on. The last couple of months in Okinawa were busy,
stressful, and heartbreaking. Let me start off by saying that Okinawa was the
beginning of our everything. It seems unreal to think back on the three years
we spent there and what life had in store for us. Our marriage was brand spankin’
new, we had no friends, no family, NO TARGET, and no “comforts” of home to lean
on. It took a bit of adjustment….but soon enough Okinawa became our home away
from home and leaving it was 10x harder than arriving to it. I cried. I still
cry. We left behind some precious memories, people, food, views, and culture. I can’t say I was surprised out how hard it
would be to leave. I knew the military life would soon take us somewhere
different and I kept telling myself “Don’t get too attached Paloma, remember
you are leaving soon”. Haha oh the things we TRY to control. I became attached
to everything especially my friends (no surprise there huh?). Hands down the
hardest thing about leaving Okinawa behind was the friendships I (we) were able
to make while we were there….and of course the Ramen. You know who you are, you
know how much you mean to us, and you know that even though we are now on the
other side of the world you are always in our thoughts and our hearts and we
ain’t going NOWHERE J
Okay, now for some updating. Cori and I spent our three year
anniversary in Indonesia. Bali was pretty incredible (at least I thought
so). Very different from what we
expected but nonetheless we had a wonderful time child free and able to enjoy
each other in silence (one year olds make you appreciate silence by the way). Our
favorite part about our trip was a tour we did where we had breakfast up on a
mountain with a beautiful view of an active volcano and a bike ride down the
mountain through villages and rice fields getting to know the true Bali. The
week went by fast and Cori and I were both excited and anxious to be reunited
with Cai. Man, those kids really do turn your world upside down. Our wonderful
friend Ashley took care of him and I will have to say, I doubt he missed us as
much as we missed him.
Soon after we arrived back to Okinawa (the next day
actually) Cori’s dad and sister paid us a visit. We had a great time exploring
the island for one last time. There is so much to do and see in Okinawa that
every day we had a packed itinerary. Even though it was exhausting at times, I
am so glad we were able to see all the things we love about Okinawa one last
time before we left and also spend some quality time with familyJ
We left Okinawa on my birthday August 24th and
spent a week in Washington with Cori’s family (all of whom were very excited to
see Cai again). Then we flew to Baltimore were Cori left that same night to Germany
and Cai, Lincoln (the dog) and I stayed behind for three days. We stayed at my
uncle’s house and got to spend some quality time there with family and friends
as well. *I am going to insert a story here mostly for my benefit so I remember
years to come what I went through and how awesome I am and how my husband will
owe me for the rest of his life ;) * We
had a late flight to Germany from Baltimore, so my uncle was able to take us to
the airport and hang out with us until it was time to go through the gate. I
was a tad bit stressed out since I had Cai, all of our carry-on luggage, Cai’s
HUGE car seat, and Lincoln to take care of before getting on the plane. Lincoln
does not like to be put in his kennel and he gets pretty nervous but I noticed
that he was a lot more nervous than usual. He would not stop crying and
whimpering and you could tell that he wanted OUT asap. Poor thing had no idea
that he would be stuck in there for quite some time. We checked Lincoln in and
my uncle helped me carry everything to the security check point and that’s
where we said our goodbyes. You can imagine how complicated it was to get Cai,
myself, three carry-on bags, and the car seat through the security check point
by myself. Once we cleared it, I had no idea how I was going to get to our
gate. I was carrying Cai and had all the bags strapped around my body and
literally kicking his car seat as I walked down the hall to get to our gate.
FINALLY a man approached me and said that he would help me carry the car seat.
He was sent from heaven. As we are walking to our gate I hear “ Bemis party,
Bemis, please come speak to an attendant at gate 12” through the intercome. I
turn around and tell the man “That’s me they are calling!” he says “Go ahead, I
will catch up to you”. So now I am running down the hall and as I approach the
desk, two attendants look at me and I immediately know it is not good. They
look behind me and say “Oh good, is that your husband coming with the car seat?”
and I say “No I am traveling alone with my kid” and their faces said it all…..I
was in for it. “ You poor thing! I am sorry ma’am but we cannot allow your dog
to be put on the airplane until you go and clean up his mess in the kennel”. At
first I was relieved. Oh, you want me to clean some pee in a kennel? No
problem! I thought they were going to say there was no room for us on the
plane. It took about two seconds to register that their faces weren’t JUST
telling me that my dog had peed himself. You could have sworn they were looking
at a 5year old who just found out her puppy died (that’s how much they pitied
me). I have no idea why I would ask such a stupid question, I think it was my
brain thinking out loud but I immediately asked “Is it number one or number
two?” the answer….”both”. I am not going to lie, at that moment I cursed Cori
in my head and let him have it. I was livid! For those of you who know me, I think
dogs are cute and I like to pet them and look at them every once in a while but
that is as far as it goes. I am a horrible caretaker of dogs. I don’t like the
responsibility of feeding, walking, bathing, or entertaining them. As a matter
of fact, I would wax my friend’s legs for her and as a tradeoff she would bathe
my dog Sam (who is no longer with me and has an owner who treats him perfectly,
thanks by the way) so I didn’t have to do it. So you can imagine my horror….I
keep telling myself as I carry Cai back through security out to the check in
counter that it’s not going to be that bad, it’s NOT going to be that bad. That
thought immediately evaporates the minute I smell the first whiff (I am still
50 plus feet away from reaching Lincoln). There is a man standing in the near
area and when he sees me approach, his look also says it all…..I am in for it.
He says “ I am so sorry. I wish I could
help you. Here are some gloves. You can take him into the women’s bathroom if
you would like. I am so sorry”. First off, why are YOU sorry? Second off, WHY
can’t you help me? Cai gets excited to see Lincoln and runs towards his kennel,
I shriek “NOOOOOOOO!!!” and my ninja skills kick in as I grab him two seconds
before he puts his hands inside the kennel (it didn’t matter as he would
actually get into the kennel later as I was cleaning it). Lincoln’s kennel was
on a cart so I was able to wheel him into the women’s restroom. I was relieved
to notice there was no one inside. I open Lincoln’s kennel and he immediately
bolts out, COVERED in poop. I took one look at him and one look inside the
kennel and I kid you not, I don’t think I have ever felt so devastated. I stood
there for a good minute thinking to myself….there is no way I can do this, how
am I going to do this?, I am going to miss my flight, should I leave Lincoln
here?, I can’t leave him, seriously, what am I going to do?! Can I pay someone to do this? Cai is walking
into each stall doing who knows what and he is the least of my problems right
now. Oh you are touching dirty toilets with your little hands?? Be my guest!
Keep yourself entertained! I have a kennel covered (I mean every inch of it)
with dog diarrhea, I need you out of my way. Mother of the year award goes to
me. My eyes start stinging both because of the stench and my desperation. I am
trying my hardest to keep my tears in because I know once they come out; I am
going to lose it. I grab one of those LARGE toilet paper rolls and get to it. I
don’t know what got into me, probably an adrenaline rush. If you don’t clean up
fast, you will miss your flight, goodbye Germany, goodbye husband, goodbye life….so
dramatic right? Lincoln’s kennel is pretty big so I actually had to get in
there to clean the back part of it. Needless to say I got some poop in my hair
and who knows where else. It was a disaster. A complete disaster. Cai
eventually got tired of playing with dirty toilets and wanted to play with
Lincoln instead. So at this point I am trying to finish cleaning the kennel up
while simultaneously kicking cai (with my foot) out of the way. I finished the
kennel and proceeded to give Lincoln a bath as well as I could in a bathroom.
At an airport. I am soaked in my own sweat. The bathroom was empty when we walked in but
women came in and out while we were in there. Actually, a couple left when they
saw what was going on without even entering the place. I just got the same “I
pity you“eyes from all of them along with some “ that is so disgusting” looks
as well. Not ONE single person offered to help. Not one. Okay okay. I am no
Mother Theresa. If I saw a woman in a bathroom cleaning up dog diarrhea, I
probably wouldn’t offer my services. However, if I saw her battling her one
year old son at the same time as cleaning up dog diarrhea I would have most
definitely jumped in and done something. I kept thinking to myself “If I was in
Okinawa, someone would have helped me”. I am finishing up throwing away piles
and piles of wet paper towels and toilet paper when two cleaning ladies make their
way into the bathroom. They immediately halt their cleaning carts and one of
them yells “ Are you kidding me?!”. She is mad. SHE is mad! Unbelievable. I
tell myself to calm down and kindly say “ Don’t worry, I got it all. I cleaned
everything myself”. And she has the nerve to say “Well, it is probably all
over, did you clean the floors? I can smell it”. I look at her, put Lincoln back in his kennel,
grab Cai and put him on my hip, and push the cart out of the bathroom with my
free hand. Both of them have their hands on their head in angered disbelief. As
I pass them I tell them (this time not so kindly) “ I SAID I cleaned it all up,
RELAX!!” and kept walking. I checked Lincoln back in and ran through security
again back to our gate. The plane was already boarding. The two attendants saw
me and stopped the line to let us go through. The kind gentlemen found me once
again to help me with Cai’s car seat and he asked me “Are you okay?” and I said
“Let’s just say my husband will owe me for the rest of his life”. He laughed. We get on the plane, I find our seats, and
strap Cai into his car seat. I keep hoping someone nice or no one gets the seat
next to me. People usually don’t like sitting near a toddler on a plane and
they most definitely don’t want to sit next to someone who smells like poop. My
luck would have it that I get an unmarried, young, childfree, guy sit next to
us. He doesn’t say a word. Not a word. I have to break the ice. “I am sorry but
my dog had a huge accident before we boarded the plane and I had to clean it up
so if I smell like poop I apologize in advance, it’s not my fault. Also, my son
is really tired so he might cry for a little bit but he will most likely fall
asleep and you won’t have to hear him anymore”. Luckily, he was nice and slept
the whole flight so I didn’t have to put up with an awkward flight on top of
the whole situation. Cori’s eyes when we landed and I told him the story made
it all worth it….he was sorry, he felt bad, he was thankful but I saw it…he was
also proud of meJ
Honestly, I did it all for him. Lincoln was coming with me on that plane no
matter what. Cori needs him. Oh the things we do for our husbands. Cori loves
Lincoln and because he loves him so much, I do too. I proved it.
We are now in Germany awaiting our next journey. We move into
our home October 1st and hopefully update you soon on what is to
come. So far Germany is amazing. We feel like we are in a permanent vacation.
God works in mysterious ways and I can’t wait to see what He has in store for
us next.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Getting ready for it all....
So once again I have failed at keeping everyone updated. It's been a very busy 3 months since I last wrote. Work has been insanely busy which I have so much to be thankful for. My photography business has blossomed into something bigger than I could have ever imagined and every day I get emails with inquiries on bookings and packages. I am a bit scared as to what it will be like in Germany but I am confident that word of mouth will eventually spread and I can start working soon once I get there. I already have had several people contact me regarding photo shoots in Germany! How exciting :) My last photo shoot in Okinawa is on July 21st and I am so so so excited about it. I do enjoy my job very much but it will be such a relief to not have to edit a single picture for awhile and to be able to enjoy Cai and Cori fully the last month or so we are here on island.
Speaking of which...we are moving so soon!! Ahhh it's coming up so fast. Cori is in the process of doing all of the paperwork which is a royal pain and I feel bad I can't help him with it. Sometimes the military can be a real pain to deal with when it comes to getting things done. Regardless, we are moving a long and will eventually be off this island whether it be at the end of August or early September. We are VERY excited to start fresh in Europe and even MORE excited to explore and travel Europe in our three year tour in Germany.
Michelle Farina visited us at the end of May and it was one of the best weeks I've had since being here in Okinawa. It was so awesome to spend quality time with her and be able to show her how beautiful and fun Okinawa is. I am so thankful for her friendship and love her to pieces. So happy she came to see us:)
The next 6 months should be a stressful yet fun experience. Cori and I will be celebrating our three year anniversary in Bali. Uhhh pretty much counting the days for this vacation! A couple of days after we arrive, Cori's dad and sister will be joining us in Okinawa for a visit. Very excited to explore the island with them and get to spend quality time with them both. I am sure they are excited about Cai most of all :) We leave to Germany shortly after their departure. Sometime in September/October I am going to try my hardest to make my way with Cai to the states to see everyone and finally late december/early january we will be spending a couple of weeks in CHILE. Thinking about our Chile trip can sometimes bring tears to my eyes. It's been a very long time since I have been back and I miss that country and all of my family very much. It will be a family reunion that has been a long time coming and we are all SO SO SO happy. As you can tell, life in the Bemis family will be very hectic in the next 6 months.
On to Cai.... He is now 15 months old and growing more and more every day. He is an adorable little boy who loves music and loves to dance. It is one of his favorite things to do along with helping dad take out the trash. He loves being outside, hugging Lincoln, hitting Lincoln in the face, eating cheese sticks, watching elmo on our iphones, eating frozen veggies, running, twirling, climbing, AND swimming. Every day we annoy him with hugs and kisses. We still can't believe he is ours and how much he has grown over the past year. Hopefully in the near future we can give him a brother or sister to keep him entertained :)
We are doing great and appreciate your thoughts, prayers, and friendship. Will keep you updated once we leave this rock!
Speaking of which...we are moving so soon!! Ahhh it's coming up so fast. Cori is in the process of doing all of the paperwork which is a royal pain and I feel bad I can't help him with it. Sometimes the military can be a real pain to deal with when it comes to getting things done. Regardless, we are moving a long and will eventually be off this island whether it be at the end of August or early September. We are VERY excited to start fresh in Europe and even MORE excited to explore and travel Europe in our three year tour in Germany.
Michelle Farina visited us at the end of May and it was one of the best weeks I've had since being here in Okinawa. It was so awesome to spend quality time with her and be able to show her how beautiful and fun Okinawa is. I am so thankful for her friendship and love her to pieces. So happy she came to see us:)
The next 6 months should be a stressful yet fun experience. Cori and I will be celebrating our three year anniversary in Bali. Uhhh pretty much counting the days for this vacation! A couple of days after we arrive, Cori's dad and sister will be joining us in Okinawa for a visit. Very excited to explore the island with them and get to spend quality time with them both. I am sure they are excited about Cai most of all :) We leave to Germany shortly after their departure. Sometime in September/October I am going to try my hardest to make my way with Cai to the states to see everyone and finally late december/early january we will be spending a couple of weeks in CHILE. Thinking about our Chile trip can sometimes bring tears to my eyes. It's been a very long time since I have been back and I miss that country and all of my family very much. It will be a family reunion that has been a long time coming and we are all SO SO SO happy. As you can tell, life in the Bemis family will be very hectic in the next 6 months.
On to Cai.... He is now 15 months old and growing more and more every day. He is an adorable little boy who loves music and loves to dance. It is one of his favorite things to do along with helping dad take out the trash. He loves being outside, hugging Lincoln, hitting Lincoln in the face, eating cheese sticks, watching elmo on our iphones, eating frozen veggies, running, twirling, climbing, AND swimming. Every day we annoy him with hugs and kisses. We still can't believe he is ours and how much he has grown over the past year. Hopefully in the near future we can give him a brother or sister to keep him entertained :)
We are doing great and appreciate your thoughts, prayers, and friendship. Will keep you updated once we leave this rock!
Sunday, March 31, 2013
March Madness
I write this post excited and sad at the same time. Cai Jackson Bemis turned 1 on March 24th and saying this year went by fast is an understatement. It feels like just yesterday I was pledging a lifetime of love to my husband and all of a sudden I am now celebrating my son's first stinkin' birthday!
I am in complete awe of Cai. Every day he brings great joy to my life. It's incredible how someone so little and new to this world can forever change your life for the better. I see myself and Cori in him every day (the good and the bad). The good obviously on my part :) Just kidding. He resembles his dad in all walks of life so far and takes after me in his stubborn ways and pitching fits when he doesn't get what he wants. Yes, I'm so proud. He has taken to eating dog food. It's completely disgusting I know, but he is a boy and absolutely curious about everything he sees especially things that are off limits (like the laundry room where we keep the dog food). I hear Cai all day regardless of where he is in the house...he walks like a little drunken sailor crashing into things, clapping his hands, blabbing unrecognizable words, and shrieking every time he gets excited. It's those 2-3 minutes when you hear absolutely NOTHING that you know he is up to no good. It usually involves the toilet, the cabinets, pantry, or a mouthful of dog food stuffed into his cheeks. I know this makes absolutely no sense after what I have described, but he is too smart for his own good. I tell Cori every day how I believe I birthed a baby genius. I suppose only time will tell.
Life continues to be great on this side of the world. Work is busier than ever and our time on this island is getting shorter and shorter by the minute. Seriously, time FLIES. Germany will be another adventurous 3 years and we are looking forward to it excitedly. In July, Cori and I will be spending a week long anniversary trip in Bali. We are very happy to have the opportunity to travel to such exotic and beautiful places while here in Japan. Anyone who knows me, knows that I LOVE to travel and relish in experiencing different cultures and countries. Luckily, I found myself a man that supports my adventurous side and wants to explore this world with me. Pictures and details about our trip in the near future.
I've been reflecting a lot on life and family lately as experiencing Cai's first birthday brought a lot of emotions out of me. Life truly is incredible, unpredictable, beautiful, challenging, and humbling. God has a way of working His way through all circumstances and I can't help but feel extremely blessed by everything He has given me. I love you guys and miss you tons! Although the distance has disconnected us over the past three years, know that you have always remained in my heart and that your love and support over the years has not gone unnoticed.
Here's to another year of motherhood and maybe some more little squirts (no I am not pregnant, calm down).
I am in complete awe of Cai. Every day he brings great joy to my life. It's incredible how someone so little and new to this world can forever change your life for the better. I see myself and Cori in him every day (the good and the bad). The good obviously on my part :) Just kidding. He resembles his dad in all walks of life so far and takes after me in his stubborn ways and pitching fits when he doesn't get what he wants. Yes, I'm so proud. He has taken to eating dog food. It's completely disgusting I know, but he is a boy and absolutely curious about everything he sees especially things that are off limits (like the laundry room where we keep the dog food). I hear Cai all day regardless of where he is in the house...he walks like a little drunken sailor crashing into things, clapping his hands, blabbing unrecognizable words, and shrieking every time he gets excited. It's those 2-3 minutes when you hear absolutely NOTHING that you know he is up to no good. It usually involves the toilet, the cabinets, pantry, or a mouthful of dog food stuffed into his cheeks. I know this makes absolutely no sense after what I have described, but he is too smart for his own good. I tell Cori every day how I believe I birthed a baby genius. I suppose only time will tell.
Life continues to be great on this side of the world. Work is busier than ever and our time on this island is getting shorter and shorter by the minute. Seriously, time FLIES. Germany will be another adventurous 3 years and we are looking forward to it excitedly. In July, Cori and I will be spending a week long anniversary trip in Bali. We are very happy to have the opportunity to travel to such exotic and beautiful places while here in Japan. Anyone who knows me, knows that I LOVE to travel and relish in experiencing different cultures and countries. Luckily, I found myself a man that supports my adventurous side and wants to explore this world with me. Pictures and details about our trip in the near future.
I've been reflecting a lot on life and family lately as experiencing Cai's first birthday brought a lot of emotions out of me. Life truly is incredible, unpredictable, beautiful, challenging, and humbling. God has a way of working His way through all circumstances and I can't help but feel extremely blessed by everything He has given me. I love you guys and miss you tons! Although the distance has disconnected us over the past three years, know that you have always remained in my heart and that your love and support over the years has not gone unnoticed.
Here's to another year of motherhood and maybe some more little squirts (no I am not pregnant, calm down).
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
February
Look at me being such a great blog poster and keeping you guys up to date on Bemis life :) I had my surgery on Jan 29th and everything went well. Unfortunately, it was a urethral diverticulum which is what we didn't want it to be but the surgery went well and it wasn't as bad as we thought it would be. I am healing great and hope to be 100% by the end of March! My mom was here for the surgery and it was a huge blessing to have her help with Cai. He loved having her around and she is missed now that she is gone :(
Photography has been extremely busy and I am loving every second of it although exhausted from all the work. I was able to take a three week break for my surgery so it was nice to spend some time at home camera free. As soon as I was cleared to go though, I immediately started booking sessions and getting back into the game. You can stay updated on everything photography at www.palomabphotography.com
Cai Jackson is walking everywhere now. Every day he walks more and more and getting faster and faster. He took his first steps at 9 months but this month he has become an actual "walker". It is so neat to watch him discover his little legs. Every time he falls (which is a lot) I cringe. He is a boy though so I just need to give in to the fact that he is going to cause his face and whole body a lot of damage before he reaches the age of 18. He is trying so hard to communicate with us even though all that comes out of his mouth are whines. We can't wait for him to start talking since we can all agree that whining is super annoying! He has the cutest smile though and his laughter will light up your heart in 2.3 seconds. He is also extremely curious, loves to play ball with Lincoln, play with his cars, and LOVES pasta.
Cori is also doing well. Work is still work but he is keeping his head up and looking at ways to further his education. He really wants to study unmanned aircrafts so he is in the process of figuring how he can start and how the military can help support his decision. He is excited about Germany and starting fresh. He is the greatest dad...every day Cori comes home from work Cai immediately greets him at the door and they proceed to have a wrestling/tickling match for about 20 minutes. Cai absolutely loves it. All I hear from the other room are shrieks and giggles.
We couldn't possibly leave Okinawa without going to Bali so I "accidentally" booked us a vacation in July to celebrate our 3 year anniversary. It is extremely cheap to travel to Bali from Okinawa so I figured if we ever wanted to go, now is the time. We are very excited and can't wait to share some of that adventure with you in the future.
Last but not least I have 2 weeks of school left! two two two two two two!! These past couple of months have been dragging school wise. I just want to throw in the towel but I just have to keep reminding myself that I am so close to the end. It is going to be great to not have to think about school ever again (well maybe...I'm contemplating getting my PhD but that is here nor there right now). So needless to say I will be throwing a mini party in the near future celebrating not having to write another paper in a LONG time!
Cai turns ONE in March! Seriously where has the time gone? I can't believe I am married, let alone a mother to an almost one year old. So crazy. Life is so great right now and I couldn't be happier to have such an amazing husband and cute son to live out my dreams with. I will post pictures of his first birthday next month to show you how much this little booger has grown these past 12 months.
We miss you all and hope life is treating you amazingly. We love hearing about your lives and staying updated on everything that is happening back home. We loveeeeee you!!!
Photography has been extremely busy and I am loving every second of it although exhausted from all the work. I was able to take a three week break for my surgery so it was nice to spend some time at home camera free. As soon as I was cleared to go though, I immediately started booking sessions and getting back into the game. You can stay updated on everything photography at www.palomabphotography.com
Cai Jackson is walking everywhere now. Every day he walks more and more and getting faster and faster. He took his first steps at 9 months but this month he has become an actual "walker". It is so neat to watch him discover his little legs. Every time he falls (which is a lot) I cringe. He is a boy though so I just need to give in to the fact that he is going to cause his face and whole body a lot of damage before he reaches the age of 18. He is trying so hard to communicate with us even though all that comes out of his mouth are whines. We can't wait for him to start talking since we can all agree that whining is super annoying! He has the cutest smile though and his laughter will light up your heart in 2.3 seconds. He is also extremely curious, loves to play ball with Lincoln, play with his cars, and LOVES pasta.
Cori is also doing well. Work is still work but he is keeping his head up and looking at ways to further his education. He really wants to study unmanned aircrafts so he is in the process of figuring how he can start and how the military can help support his decision. He is excited about Germany and starting fresh. He is the greatest dad...every day Cori comes home from work Cai immediately greets him at the door and they proceed to have a wrestling/tickling match for about 20 minutes. Cai absolutely loves it. All I hear from the other room are shrieks and giggles.
We couldn't possibly leave Okinawa without going to Bali so I "accidentally" booked us a vacation in July to celebrate our 3 year anniversary. It is extremely cheap to travel to Bali from Okinawa so I figured if we ever wanted to go, now is the time. We are very excited and can't wait to share some of that adventure with you in the future.
Last but not least I have 2 weeks of school left! two two two two two two!! These past couple of months have been dragging school wise. I just want to throw in the towel but I just have to keep reminding myself that I am so close to the end. It is going to be great to not have to think about school ever again (well maybe...I'm contemplating getting my PhD but that is here nor there right now). So needless to say I will be throwing a mini party in the near future celebrating not having to write another paper in a LONG time!
Cai turns ONE in March! Seriously where has the time gone? I can't believe I am married, let alone a mother to an almost one year old. So crazy. Life is so great right now and I couldn't be happier to have such an amazing husband and cute son to live out my dreams with. I will post pictures of his first birthday next month to show you how much this little booger has grown these past 12 months.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Thailand, Germany, Photography, and New Year
Wow. So I officially suck at keeping everyone updated on our lives. Sorry! Things have been extremely busy in the Bemis world but now that we have officially entered 2013, things are starting to slow down again (kinda) and I have about an hour to spare before the Tasmanian devil wakes up from his nap.
Where to begin? November was an eventful month. We took a trip to Thailand and despite some unfortunate things that happened. It was an amazing trip. How can Thailand not be amazing? Cori, Cai, and I spent a week in Bangkok exploring the hot/humid busy scene of the city and got to do some pretty awesome things. We spent a day traveling to the Tiger Temple where we got to pet and take pictures next to about 10 huge, scary, yet gentle tigers. We visited the floating markets, other kinds of markets, did a couple of tours, and ate our merry little bellies full of delicious Thai cuisine. We then traveled by airplane to Phuket where we were to spend another week truly enjoying a "vacation" in some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. We arrived to our hotel and literally 1 hour later, Cori received a call that he had to return to work. It's a long story that I am not going to get into on this blog but to make it real short he pretty much packed a bag and left immediately. I refused to go with him. Anyone that knows me, knows that I will not pass up an opportunity to explore especially because the "military says so". They can control my husband, but not me....Well so I said ( I was acting big and tough) and then the minute the hotel door closed and I had kissed my husband goodbye the tears came pouring out. I sobbed like a little baby and had no idea what I was going to do with an 8 month old baby in the middle of Thailand by MYSELF. I eventually calmed down enough to go outside for some lunch and explore the beaches with Cai on my back. We had a lovely time. Of course we missed Cori a whole lot, but I realized that I could do it on my own and it was a moment of empowerment I will never forget :) However, I didn't have to do it all alone because my amazing friend Ashley who has a daughter 4 days younger than Cai booked herself a ticket immediately and arrived the next night to finish off our week in Phuket together. I am not going to lie. I think every person that saw us together thought we were absolutely crazy. Two tiny girls carrying 8 month old babies around on their backs in extremely hot weather and literally doing everything that all the other tourists were doing. Yes, we even rode elephants with our babies on top of them with us ( I did have a moment where I thought social services should be called on me). I missed Corigan A LOT and wished many times that he could be enjoying the beautiful experiences, but also thanked God for giving me such a special friend to share it all with. We spent a couple of nights on the island of Koh Phi Phi and explored Phuket. It was an unforgettable two weeks that I will cherish forever. If you have facebook, I have uploaded an album with some pics of the trip.
So we arrived back to Okinawa on Thanksgiving Day. Cori had a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner all cooked up for us. Seriously, how did I score the most amazing husband ever? Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years was spent with our Okinawa family that we have grown to love so much and the holidays were a blessing as always.
Cai is now 9 months old and extremely active. He is in the low percentile (actually pretty low) on his weight. We took him to the doctor for his 9 month checkup and he is a perfectly healthy baby but he needs to gain weight. Cori and I don't know what to do, this baby seriously eats more than any baby I know BUT he is nonstop all day every day so he burns calories like no other. He already took his first steps, he crawls, cruises, stands up, claps his hands, blows kisses, laughs, screams, and cries constantly. He is nonstop. He is pretty advanced for his age and we are proud parents, however wish he would calm down a bit so the calories would pile on and he could get some chunks on his body. Every day it seems like he learns something new. We can tell already (and no it's not because we are his parents) that he is a very smart baby boy. I am truly amazed at his developments over the months. God has given us such a healthy, smart and HILARIOUS baby boy.
In August we will be moving to Germany. I received the news obviously with great joy. It's always been my dream to live in different countries and expose my family/children to the wonderful things this world has to offer. Cori and I plan to explore as much of Europe as we can while we are stationed there. We are in a great location and have no doubts that everyone and their mom will want to visit us while we are there. For some reason people would rather go to Germany than Japan. I don't get it, but Germany seems to be a pretty big hit as far as everyone already making plans to come visit us. To say I am excited is an understatement.
My photography business has kicked off to a great start this new year. I am fully booked for the month of January and booking appts for Feb & March as well. I love this job so much and find joy in it which I feel is so key to my happiness. I am able to be a stay at home mom which has always been very important to me, while at the same time contributing to our family and having a job that I absolutely love. Cori has been the most supportive husband in both my school and photography ventures. Speaking of school, I have 9 weeks of it left before finishing all my classes for my Masters program. I'm telling you....life has been BUSY.
My mom gets here on January 24th!! She will be staying with us for a month. I will be having surgery on the 29th. Long story short, I have a cyst that is really close to my urethra. The doctors are not sure if it is attached to my urethra or not (they have done two cystoscopy and an MRI) and they will not be able to find out until they go in to operate. SOOOOOO, we are praying and hoping that it is not attached to my urethra because that will be kind of a big deal and that it is just a cyst that they can surgically remove and I can heal from quickly. I would appreciate your thoughts and prayers on the 29th. My mom will be here to help me recover and of course to help out with Cai. It is so awesome that she is able to come, although I really don't think she minds =)
This is a ridiculously long post but hopefully it means I won't have to update for awhile. I am terrible at making time for this :/
Last but not least, Cai is having a joint birthday party with his two best friends, Kayla & Ryah. All three of them are born 4 days within each other and I have become really good friends with their amazing moms. Cori and I decided that all birthdays and Christmases (is that even a word?) for Cai will be about giving and not receiving. Every year on his birthday Cai will decide who/whom he wants to help and his birthday will be dedicated to whatever cause he is passionate about. We hope that every year he becomes more and more excited about helping others and grows up to be a man compassionate and loving of the people of this world. We also hope he grows up not being brainwashed into loving the materialistic things of this world and striving to be successful based off of how much money he makes. He will have success in many other ways (maybe even so financially as well). Anyways, this year he obviously doesn't have a cause he wants to help so we have decided for him. My amazing friends are completely on board with this concept so this huge combined birthday party will help the local orphanage here in Okinawa. All the gifts brought to the birthday party will be donated to the orphanage :) We are all so excited about sharing this huge milestone in their lives. This year has gone by SO fast, no idea where it went.
Please keep us in your prayers and thoughts as we continue this journey of life together. We think about everyone back home often and miss you guys a lot. We hope this blog entry finds you happy and healthy fathiojfghm <----- and as you can see my hyper monkey is awake (just in time) and I need- t+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++-o tend to my motherly duties ....*yawn* ;) +
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Cai is saying hi. Gotta go!
Paloma
Where to begin? November was an eventful month. We took a trip to Thailand and despite some unfortunate things that happened. It was an amazing trip. How can Thailand not be amazing? Cori, Cai, and I spent a week in Bangkok exploring the hot/humid busy scene of the city and got to do some pretty awesome things. We spent a day traveling to the Tiger Temple where we got to pet and take pictures next to about 10 huge, scary, yet gentle tigers. We visited the floating markets, other kinds of markets, did a couple of tours, and ate our merry little bellies full of delicious Thai cuisine. We then traveled by airplane to Phuket where we were to spend another week truly enjoying a "vacation" in some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. We arrived to our hotel and literally 1 hour later, Cori received a call that he had to return to work. It's a long story that I am not going to get into on this blog but to make it real short he pretty much packed a bag and left immediately. I refused to go with him. Anyone that knows me, knows that I will not pass up an opportunity to explore especially because the "military says so". They can control my husband, but not me....Well so I said ( I was acting big and tough) and then the minute the hotel door closed and I had kissed my husband goodbye the tears came pouring out. I sobbed like a little baby and had no idea what I was going to do with an 8 month old baby in the middle of Thailand by MYSELF. I eventually calmed down enough to go outside for some lunch and explore the beaches with Cai on my back. We had a lovely time. Of course we missed Cori a whole lot, but I realized that I could do it on my own and it was a moment of empowerment I will never forget :) However, I didn't have to do it all alone because my amazing friend Ashley who has a daughter 4 days younger than Cai booked herself a ticket immediately and arrived the next night to finish off our week in Phuket together. I am not going to lie. I think every person that saw us together thought we were absolutely crazy. Two tiny girls carrying 8 month old babies around on their backs in extremely hot weather and literally doing everything that all the other tourists were doing. Yes, we even rode elephants with our babies on top of them with us ( I did have a moment where I thought social services should be called on me). I missed Corigan A LOT and wished many times that he could be enjoying the beautiful experiences, but also thanked God for giving me such a special friend to share it all with. We spent a couple of nights on the island of Koh Phi Phi and explored Phuket. It was an unforgettable two weeks that I will cherish forever. If you have facebook, I have uploaded an album with some pics of the trip.
So we arrived back to Okinawa on Thanksgiving Day. Cori had a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner all cooked up for us. Seriously, how did I score the most amazing husband ever? Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years was spent with our Okinawa family that we have grown to love so much and the holidays were a blessing as always.
Cai is now 9 months old and extremely active. He is in the low percentile (actually pretty low) on his weight. We took him to the doctor for his 9 month checkup and he is a perfectly healthy baby but he needs to gain weight. Cori and I don't know what to do, this baby seriously eats more than any baby I know BUT he is nonstop all day every day so he burns calories like no other. He already took his first steps, he crawls, cruises, stands up, claps his hands, blows kisses, laughs, screams, and cries constantly. He is nonstop. He is pretty advanced for his age and we are proud parents, however wish he would calm down a bit so the calories would pile on and he could get some chunks on his body. Every day it seems like he learns something new. We can tell already (and no it's not because we are his parents) that he is a very smart baby boy. I am truly amazed at his developments over the months. God has given us such a healthy, smart and HILARIOUS baby boy.
In August we will be moving to Germany. I received the news obviously with great joy. It's always been my dream to live in different countries and expose my family/children to the wonderful things this world has to offer. Cori and I plan to explore as much of Europe as we can while we are stationed there. We are in a great location and have no doubts that everyone and their mom will want to visit us while we are there. For some reason people would rather go to Germany than Japan. I don't get it, but Germany seems to be a pretty big hit as far as everyone already making plans to come visit us. To say I am excited is an understatement.
My photography business has kicked off to a great start this new year. I am fully booked for the month of January and booking appts for Feb & March as well. I love this job so much and find joy in it which I feel is so key to my happiness. I am able to be a stay at home mom which has always been very important to me, while at the same time contributing to our family and having a job that I absolutely love. Cori has been the most supportive husband in both my school and photography ventures. Speaking of school, I have 9 weeks of it left before finishing all my classes for my Masters program. I'm telling you....life has been BUSY.
My mom gets here on January 24th!! She will be staying with us for a month. I will be having surgery on the 29th. Long story short, I have a cyst that is really close to my urethra. The doctors are not sure if it is attached to my urethra or not (they have done two cystoscopy and an MRI) and they will not be able to find out until they go in to operate. SOOOOOO, we are praying and hoping that it is not attached to my urethra because that will be kind of a big deal and that it is just a cyst that they can surgically remove and I can heal from quickly. I would appreciate your thoughts and prayers on the 29th. My mom will be here to help me recover and of course to help out with Cai. It is so awesome that she is able to come, although I really don't think she minds =)
This is a ridiculously long post but hopefully it means I won't have to update for awhile. I am terrible at making time for this :/
Last but not least, Cai is having a joint birthday party with his two best friends, Kayla & Ryah. All three of them are born 4 days within each other and I have become really good friends with their amazing moms. Cori and I decided that all birthdays and Christmases (is that even a word?) for Cai will be about giving and not receiving. Every year on his birthday Cai will decide who/whom he wants to help and his birthday will be dedicated to whatever cause he is passionate about. We hope that every year he becomes more and more excited about helping others and grows up to be a man compassionate and loving of the people of this world. We also hope he grows up not being brainwashed into loving the materialistic things of this world and striving to be successful based off of how much money he makes. He will have success in many other ways (maybe even so financially as well). Anyways, this year he obviously doesn't have a cause he wants to help so we have decided for him. My amazing friends are completely on board with this concept so this huge combined birthday party will help the local orphanage here in Okinawa. All the gifts brought to the birthday party will be donated to the orphanage :) We are all so excited about sharing this huge milestone in their lives. This year has gone by SO fast, no idea where it went.
Please keep us in your prayers and thoughts as we continue this journey of life together. We think about everyone back home often and miss you guys a lot. We hope this blog entry finds you happy and healthy fathiojfghm <----- and as you can see my hyper monkey is awake (just in time) and I need- t+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++-o tend to my motherly duties ....*yawn* ;) +
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Cai is saying hi. Gotta go!
Paloma
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